Sexual, Masturbation and Porn Addiction Help Forum

Hi All,

I just found out that my husband has a porn addiction... when we were dating he mentioned he looked at porn but i had him promise that it would stop. He made it sound like not a big deal at the time... Now that were married i casually brought it up since a friend of mine is struggling with her boyfriend. He confessed that he started looking at porn again recently after being layed off from a job for a couple of months. We're strong Christians but i can't help feeling betrayed and dissapointed. Am i wrong for this? What can i do for help? He says he hasn't looked in a month and that it's not out of control but how can i believe that...

Sorry if you get two of these....I am trying to figure out what my last post did. My short time, I will say this. If he hasn't betrayed your trust, trust his word. The biggest frustration that I have is when she doesn't trust me that I haven't slipped or done anything wrong. This stems from my past slip ups, but it does not help. I also suggest talking to him about how you feel when he does look or what it does to your relationship....in your eyes Lastly, trust in God. Let him guide you to your answers. Love is a key factor, and God understands how we think and feel! Hope this helps. Talk to you another time!
Ben

I am not so religious but I'll tell you one thing - If he wants to get away from it, he should know how to deal with the void - when he's alone and all and has nothing urgent to do. He has to find something engaging and interesting to do.
He probably also has masturbation addiction which is a bigger problem than porn addiction. But you'll not wanna believe that easily.
Try www.sa.org (It is especially for Christians)

I a dealing with what has happened to me still after 12 years. My ex-husband was a porn addict to the point he lost multiple jobs, 1 thousand dollars of 1900 calls, lied and only God knows the rest. iT RUINED MY SELF-ESTEEM AND RESPECT FOR MYSELF. I began stripping and doing porn myself as some sort of I will get you back thing which just ruined me more.I left him and have continued on my wrong path and now I am looking to write a boom to help women in this area-being the porn star and the hurt woan all in one-I have alot of insite. [/b]

so sorry to tell u this but he's not done. get spyware or something. i am a recovering porn addict and i know that it is not a switch that u can just turn off. trust but confirm.