Sexual, Masturbation and Porn Addiction Help Forum

I'm a heathly latin gay male 35 years old in a relationship with a 42 yr old white male. Our relationship has hit a very low point. He has a masturbation addiction and enjoys watchin gay porn. We moved in together Dec of 2008. We went from having great sex to no sex at all. He started blaming my weight or stated that I would act very feminine in bed. He brought my self esteem to the ground. I consider myself a great lover and never received complaints from previous partners. I have discussed with him his addiction and how he masturbates and enjoys porn. I recently moved out becuase he stated he felt lost, frustrated. We started to argue more and I could not handle it.I would attempt to get near him offer him kisses or letting him know I was horny and he would just tell me to be quiet. I offered to watch porn with him and he would say NO! After moving out I found out he subsribed to more gay porn sites and gay sex hook ups online. Why do I want to make this work? I love him? He needs help?

You can only help him if he wants the help. Love has little to do with it at this point.