Sexual, Masturbation and Porn Addiction Help Forum

My husband has been struggling with this stuff for quite awhile now and I don't know what my options are. He won't listen to me and I feel alone even though we are still together. I love him and want to help but don't know what I can do. Any advice?

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Yes she does deserve to know.

I have given her hints (once a week) but I have not told her the complete truth (once in two days). I am not yet married to her and our relationship still has a long way to go (may or may not hold) and therefore, I cannot reveal my weakness (in its full form) to her. (I doubt she'll keep it to herself if our relationship ends). Therefore, it must be done subtly.

That's a tough one because you need to be able to fully trust someone to tell them something this difficult. I think that you need to let her know that you struggle with keeping sexually pure (as do all men--and probably most women for that matter). Maybe she will ask you more questions, maybe not. Just be honest, but you don't have to tell her everything. Some things are only for God to know and for us to confess before him. Maybe some people have friends or spouses they can tell everything to, but if I told anyone everything I have done and thought then I probably wouldn't have a wife or any friends left!